Camp Nebagamon: A place where boys thrive

I have been wanting to re-start up my Creative Crossings blog for a while now and what better time than today!   I have become very interested in switching the focus of my business to helping pre-teens (both boys and girls) celebrate their authentic selves.

What is the authentic self?    To me, it's fully expressing who you are--allowing yourself to be smart, funny, have a crazy laugh, dance wildly or whatever it is that makes you feel free and happy.

This blog is aimed at parents and educators in regards to working with pre-teen boys and girls (from grade 3 to grade 8).  But it is my hope that it will also help you to think about your own life in new ways.  I know many adults, myself included, who are also struggling to be authentic.


   My nephew Noah is attending Camp Nebagamon this summer in Wisconsin.  The focus is on letting boys choose their own activities and NOT on competition (though  it sounds like they do have some fun and goofy competitions).   "We care not whether a boy is proficient at serving a tennis ball, cooking an omelet, or paddling a canoe. Our goal for every camper is that he enjoys participating, achieves competency, and feels a sense of accomplishment."


The director of the camp, Adam, writes a newsletter.   I read it every year and cry at his postings.    Why?  I think Adam is doing the work of helping boys be authentic.   There is something tender about this camp and I think it's a magical place. Away from the rigors of school and competition, something different can happen.   As one parent says,  This is a thinking camp where you do as much mental exercise as physical. It is an environment where you can emote, express yourself, learn to talk about friendship, honor, dedication, while being yourself and maintaining your individuality."


Obviously not every boy can afford this camp, but here's a link to Adam's newsletter!  I think in reading his newsletter, one can see what an authentic community in action looks like.  Happy reading.
http://nebagamon.wordpress.com/